Here's page 80 of the book. At this point, you've learned about the psychology of the college girl, you can start conversations and get phone numbers, and can get girls chasing you. Now, you're learning how to use this knowledge in common college scenarios.
A girl is in a library for a specific reason and she has pressure to be quiet. A girl leaving the library is more likely to leave for a mini-date (instant date to a coffee shop) than a girl who just picked books off a shelf.
As she is walking by, you ask "Do you know when the library closes?" (she responds) Follow up with an opinion. "Thanks. Hey girl's opinion on something before I get back to my work."
Instead of an opinion, you can follow up with a funny sound bite. Here's an example: "Hey, do you know how to reserve one of the private study rooms?" (she responds) "Okay cool. Last time I walked into one without booking it and saw my TA doing naughty things with a classmate. Do you think it's coincidence that she got an A?"
You can also start a conversation with her in a really funny way - by playfully and obviously mistaking her for someone else. Here's an example: Flag her with your hand as she walks by as though she's a waitress. "Excuse me, can I get a Corona and an Atarol". (she responds) "Oh I'm sorry. I thought you were the library waitress." (she laughs) "You look like you needed a good laugh. How's your studying going?" (she will give you logistical information that will be useful to you, such as she has a big test tomorrow or she's about to go home). "Cool, hey.. girls opinion on something, then I have to get back to my work."
After these conversation starters, you follow the same flow that was described in part three. Here it is again as a reminder:
Conversation Opener --> Mention Leaving --> Tease --> Soundbite --> Qualify & Takeaway --> QR Story --> Bond (10-15 minutes) --> Move Location
Then you get her to sit with you. In the library, she'll be standing in front of you speaking. After a few moments, her standing there will become awkward. To get her to sit you, interrupt her while she's speaking by putting your index finger over your mouth and saying "Shhh!" as though she is being too loud, then gesture for her to sit so she can continue to talking. Because she's in the middle of saying something, she will comply.
Or, after your tease, you will say "you seem cool for a library junkie, you can sit as long as you promise not to copy my homework." Gesture where to sit, so she knows what to do, and keep talking the whole time until she's settled and comfortable. You can move things out of her way, so long as you keep talking. If she refuses to sit or pauses, use another conversation starter, qualify her again, and this time gesture for her to sit.
You have every excuse to start a conversation in class. "What do you think about the professor? He/She kind of reminds me of you" or "Listen, I don't know you but you look smart. I'll make you a deal. You do my homework and I'll pay you a milllion dollars. Actually, I'll pay you in chocolate chip cookies." This is playful and fun.
I remember being skeptical when I was about to buy Gatby's college dating guide. I didn't want to spend money on a book that was just theories. This book is anything but that. It's so detailed. I mean, Gatsby breaks down everything for you. He tells you things you can say, where to meet college girls at school, and where take college girls on dates.
- Roger S. University of Buckingham, United Kingdom
You can also make friends with a few people who don't intimidate you and organize a study session before a big assignment or exam. Invite the girl you're after to the study session and casually mention that you are the one putting it together. Tell her she can come, but she has to promise not "to install a secret spy camera on you so she can see your answers during the exam." When you tell her you're organizing and it's happening whether or not she comes, she feels less pressure and is more likely to join you. Anytime you lead people to do what you want them to do, the girl will perceive an increase in your value.
In the next sections, you learn what to do in coffee shops, the cafeteria, dorms, and more. You can continue reading the chapter for free. Put in your name and email address to get access now.
